Monday, February 23, 2009

Blake's 4th date


Last weekend, I took Blake out on the 4th date I've ever taken him on. Lol, I swear there have been more..... but he says it was the 4th. I don't remember what the other 3 were besides a near death experience at Antelope Island, which discouraged me from planning another date for quite some time. When I say near death, I am not exaggerating. Most of the dates I plan have major complications, it's a reflection of my horrid planning skills and general bad luck. I am happy to report that this date was a success.

We ate at the Blue Iguana. Downtown was packed. There was a jazz game that night and we saw some High School kids in formalwear so it was prom somewhere, adding to the parking frenzy around Blue Iguana (it's in the same building as Benihana). But we lucked out and got a meter spot - yay! The restaurant was busy and we had to wait for about 20 minutes. We should have gotten there earlier because then we were pushing it to make the play we were going to afterwards. I ate faster than I have ever eaten in my life. Blake is always saying I'm a slow eater but I never believed him until this weekend when I went to Crystal Hot Springs. My friends and I ate at Beehive afterwards and I got my burger first and was the last one still eating. So eating fast was hard for me, but we managed to get there with some time to spare.

We saw Hancock County at my school. It was based on court proceedings for the trials of men charged with conspiracy to murder Joseph Smith. It was surprisingly good. The characters were well developed and it brought up a lot of universal themes which spurred intelligent and meaningful conversation all while telling an interesting story, strongly based in historical facts. Blake liked it a lot, as well which made this date a success :) (Here is an article about the play, from it's presentation at BYU, not Westminster, but I think it gives a good overview if you're interested.)

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Friday, February 20, 2009

The Vagina Monologues




On February 7, I went to my school's production of the Vagina Monologues as part of our V-Day celebration. For those of you not familiar with what V-day is, check out the v-day website. My dad rolled his eyes when he heard I was going. I was a little nervous going because I had come across some potent criticisms of the monologues. (I like to do a little research on things before I participate, I do the same thing about buying anything besides clothes and shoes those are usually impuls buys, and I like tangents aparently). But I really enjoyed it.
I know my mother would be horrified at some of the monologues. They talked about all things vagina related; sex, orgasms, rape, the anatomy of the vagina, the words we use to talk about vaginas, birth, etc. It was a celebration of womanhood and a call to end violence against women. 90 percent of the proceeds all went to benefit the Rape Recovery Center in Sugarhouse. The other 10 percent went to the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) where women's bodies are becomming the battle ground of a war.
The last and most sad monologue was one that Eve Ensler wrote about an experience she had in the DRC. It was called "Baptized." She told about a 7 year old girl she met there who had been gang raped. From that crime, she had an extra hole in her body and no longer had the ability to control her bladder. While she was sitting on Eve's lap, she accidentally peed on her. Eve said at that moment she was baptized. I understand the critiques about the Vagina Monologues that come from both conservative groups and other feminists, but I don't see how you can criticize what Eve Ensler is trying to do with the monologues and V-Day. No woman or girl should ever have to be the victim of sexual violence or abuse, and that is what V-Day is all about.

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Thursday, February 12, 2009

My Boyfriend's Back!


Yay! Just in time for Valentines Day :) even though I will be celebrating the holiday by working at the Joe and then hanging out with my girl friend Tara ha ha. Details on the experience as well as my reaction to V-day (probably including another long paper for school) to follow :)

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